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The Wisdom from Dee Why

May 2007


PFGM Directors

Canberra-Goulburn
Mary & Dennis Morris

Lismore:
Carol & Norm Heyhorn

New South Wales:
Mary Ingham

Assistant Directors NSW
Dennis & Elizabeth Farrar
Tony & Annette Guterres

Queensland:
Gwen & Russell Winterscheidt

New Zealand - North Island
Lynn & Rob Hill

New Zealand - South Island
Murray & Aileen Straight

New Zealand - Northern
Frances & Clive Bleaken

South Australia:
Chris & Tom Wilson

Victoria:
Maree & Bernard Metcalfe

We all gathered together on the weekend of the 4th to the 6th of May in the upper room beside the Norfolk Pines and the thundering surf of the Dee Why beach.
Our gathering began on a sad note.  Our co-workers and precious friends, Val & Terry Carrigg, had died tragically within 6 weeks of each other. Maree and Bernard Metcalfe were still overcome with shock and grief. At evening prayer we all hoped that our time together would bring them comfort.
I hasten to add that we missed the presence of Lynn & Rob Hill.  Rob was celebrating his 65th birthday with his own extended family. Not only did we send our loving congratulations to him and his child bride (Kiwi males are renowned for capturing beautiful fair maidens), but many a glass of red wine was raised in their honour at the table.

Saturday morning brought together our full complement, where we were able to welcome Clive & Frances Bleaken (NZ), Annette & Tony Guterres (NSW) and Dennis & Elizabeth Farrar (NSW): brand new Directors.

Tony & Annette Guterres, Mary Ingham
and Dennis & Elizabeth Farrar

CHARISM IN ACTION - My overall impression was that St. Paul’s admonition to his little communities was fulfilled. 
“Be of one mind and one heart. Put others before you, listening to all with respect. May you have the mind of Christ Himself.”

Brian Traynor summed it up in a nutshell -  
“Our meeting certainly brought great people together and it was very positive. It was like the year before when at our combined meeting, people spoke of ‘encountering the Charism’. As you say, it’s already in people’s hearts. It was what attracted us when we joined. 
It looks and sounds a bit different and is expressed very differently from Paul of the Cross’ day, but it’s from the seed he had and that we each have. I really appreciate when the General Chapter said, ‘The Charism is lived in relationships’”.

Clive Bleaken, Murray Straight, Fr Brian Traynor cp, 
Aileen Straight and Frances Bleaken   

Mary Ingham made the wise comment -
As I reflect on my understanding of the Passionist Charism, I find myself drawing on my experience of over 35 years as a co-worker. It’s the way we do things, the attitude we have to people, the goal we have of creating FAMILY that expresses the Charism for me. I believe that this gift is compassion.”  

                               Fr Peter McGrath cp 
and Mary Ingham
  

Lynn & Rob Hill’s report expressed the following wisdom –
“We remember what we owe those in Australia and throughout New Zealand, who have helped us to shape where we are today. We stand on their shoulders!

“A new stage of life of the PFGM has begun in NZ, with the commissioning of our Directors. Flexibility is a main theme in our approach. We need to keep assessing; we recognize that what suits one parish, region or Diocese, will not necessarily suit another. We need to be aware that we are not so much looking for solutions, but general directions.”

Flexibility certainly was one of the hallmarks of our gathering!

PRACTICAL MATTERS

Prager Bequest:     PFGM Fund

There was general agreement to accept the Norms prepared by the Provincial and his Council for the administration of this wonderful financial assistance that has been given for our Ministry. All of us are extremely grateful and regard the gift as coming from the Lord.
We  were enlightened by two excellent explanations given by
John Burford, the Executor
of the Prager Estate and Terry Petry, Province Finance Manager.  

Contributions to the Provincial Chapter

Tony Egar cp sought suggestions for the coming Provincial Chapter.  He began with a very touching account of a 
Pastoral situation he had recently been in. We were moved by his compassion, that was a living example of our Charism.

Fr Peter McGrath cp  
with Fr Tony Egar cp

 

Passionist Youth Encounter - Melbourne

Having experienced the Passionist Youth Team at our gathering last year, it was a further bonus to experience  
John Pearce cp.   
He enthusiastically promoted our  two Passionist events associated with World Youth Day 2008 -
"Younger Religious Encounter and the Passionist Youth Encounter to take place in Melbourne 
from the 7-13 July, 2008 www.passion8.org.au  
and World Youth Day in Sydney in 2008 www.wyd2008.org 

Our Passionist Directors have a strong commitment to Youth and it’s great to be able to record that the Passionist Youth Movement in Queensland had its beginnings with the youth retreats from the PFGM.

BLESSINGS

Kevin Hennessey cp Vicar Provincial, who had generously given up his time and been with us through the whole gathering, encouraged each one of us to continue our Ministry. He stressed that it was vital and was at the heart of the Good News – building the Kingdom of God. His words were deeply appreciated. We knew that he spoke for the Provincial, Denis Travers cp and his Council. 

  Kevin blessed our new Directors together with Murray & Aileen Straight, South Island, NZ,  Carol & Norm Heyhorn, Lismore NSW. They were given lighted candles as a symbol of the Light of Christ.

Maree and Bernard Metcalfe were also given a Candle of Remembrance. It had been the candle burning throughout the whole of our gathering and shed its light upon our prayers and the special Eucharist in that upper room.

It was fitting that this candle had painted upon it the Cross of Christ and the Crosses that His followers carried in His footsteps. Once again, the Charism was there in person and symbol.

  
Fr Kevin Hennessey cp, Maree and Bernard Metcalfe,
Fr Brian Traynor cp and Dennis Farrar


Leo Ingham with Bernard & Maree Metcalfe


Aileen & Murray Straight


Carol & Norm Heyhorn

THANKSGIVING

Throughout this time, the SPIRIT was gently present in the laughter, the sharing and the tears. We gave thanks for all those who had made this a time of renewal and encouragement for us.
All the helpers that Mary Ingham and Barbara Lunnon had mustered came from our Family Groups. They bore witness to the service that is the sign of our Family Groups and Christ’s followers – A Family for All.


Fr Peter McGrath cp,- Founder PFGM, and
Barbara Lunnon - Assistant to Fr Peter


Mary & Dennis Morris


Annette Guterres, Gwen Winterscheidt, 
Carol Heyhorn and Elizabeth Farrar


Chris & Tom Wilson 

Our thanks go out to them, as we ask God’s blessing upon them and all we serve as we turned our heads for home.

Peter McGrath cp
17 May 2007